Lately a slew of major newspaper and television news stories have highlighted woman on woman bullying. Almost all of them quote advocates who say that “status blind” harassment is legal. But, that’s not always true. If a woman can prove that, as surveys show, she’s being singled out by a female boss because the bully feels more comfortable harassing women than men then she may well have a claim under Sexual Harassment. Why is it so important for advocates to keep the message as pure as possible? While dramatic messages sell papers, books, and can propel the agenda of a cause it can also unfairly limit the needed information that traumatized victims/targets receive. ALWAYS speak with an attorney to understand the options that may or may not be open to you. Continue reading
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Are you a “bully boss”?
While researching my documentary on Workplace Bullying, I have often heard people say that it’s impossible to know whether or not a boss is actually a bully or just a tough manager. The definition and list of examples is often so vague and all encompassing that it’s really not unusual for this to be followed by something like, I mean I have to manage people and I suppose I could be considered a bully boss. Which, I suspect, gets to the root of the problem. Continue reading
EEOC Takes Aim at Age Discrimination!
It’s important to know your rights…in many cases bullying IS already illegal
[Press Release from EEOC]
EEOC Explores Plight Of Older Workers In Current Economic Climate
Commission Hears Poignant Testimony of Employee Discharged After 31 Years, Panelists Discuss Scope of Age Discrimination
WASHINGTON— At a meeting held today, the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission heard testimony that age discrimination is causing the nation’s older workers to have a difficult time maintaining and finding new employment, a problem exacerbated by the downturn in the economy. The number and percentage of age discrimination charges filed with the EEOC have grown, rising from 16,548 charges — 21.8 percent of all charges — filed in fiscal year 2006, to 22,778 —24.4 percent — in fiscal year 2009. Continue reading
WORKPLACE BULLYING: A 9/11 Story of Healing
For fifteen years my husband Farrell and I lived within 3 blocks of the WTC. On Sept 11th I stood on the corner of Warren and West Broadway as the first plane flew over my head and became lost in a fireball. I ran an excruciating block to find Farrell and the two of us shared what we thought were our last kisses. We continued watching the Twin Towers helplessly while so many lept to their deaths. The crowd around us hushed as the next plane appeared ominously in the sky and the world turned upside down. After months of evacuation the City finally deemed our building safe and we returned to our artist loft — only to be priced out three years later by the “recovery efforts.” Our neighborhood had become the most expensive and desirable real estate in NYC. But, whatever happended and wherever we would end up, we were thankful to be alive and have the gift of rebuilding our lives. Continue reading
RELEASED: 2009 Workplace Suicide Statistics
Today the Bureau of Labor Statistics (US DOL) released preliminary results from the “National Census of Fatal Occupational Injuries In 2009.” While the homicide rates include incidents like the shooting in Fort Hood they also include other types of homicides at work. Continue reading
Slater on out of here!
Today’s Washington Post summed up the Internet’s fascination with the Jet Blue flight attendant who grabbed a beer and slid the escape chute to…? Well at the moment he’s reportedly facing possible jail time. Continue reading